Your approach towards happiness should be self-motivated, follow “cool” (self-analytical) principles, and be followed up by your strong own will. We want to empower you to become happy/happier as a result of your use of your own will.
First, you should know that happiness is neither accidental nor the result of external factors. On the contrary, it is deeply buried in your subconscious. It must just be carved out by you.
Today, we would like to highlight the importance of two interconnected elements that play a paramount role in the relationships between love and happiness: Love and honesty.
Love plays a central role in human relations in particular, and happiness, in general. But the key is that your love is honest.
Love is only honest, if it is not just a feeling depleted by elements that are alien to love, such as speculation, lies, expectations, projections, resentments, and the like.
In this case “love” is fake or just conveniently projected. Please be aware: Only honest love can make people truly happy.
Honest love has the power to overcome resistance, obstacles, barriers, prejudices, and other misgivings that stand in the way of happiness.
In addition, true and honest love can help you to think “out-of-the-box”, i.e., unconventionally, and to overcome your fears. Ignore what society, people, friends, your family, or colleagues may expect from you.
It is you who must decide how you want to live your life and take the consequences that come with it. Know what makes you happy and do what you feel is right.
As long as you feel that your love is true and the decision you make will not harm or hurt anyone, no one from the outside should intervene and tell you that you are wrong.
Excerpts from the book “HAPPYxCOOL: Happiness in Relationships and at Work” by Rudolf Beger and Sara Wong, Penguin, 2021 avilable on Amazon, Goguru, WHSmith
© EIPOP-drawing Rudolf Beger.
